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domenica 15 luglio 2012

Your Taste Is Different As Mine



We occupy a world of choices and the choices we make define who we are. We try to fit in and we devote serious effort to achieve social importance.  The food we eat, the clothes we wear, the music we listen to, places we visit and the people we follow affect our intellectual activity and the way we live our lives.  Are we in actual existence or are we becoming fine copy cats in a domain full of pretense, inequality and disgrace? Each one of us enjoys freedom but not everybody live through the same privileges.  We are enslaved to materialism and earthy pleasures that we lose our own definition as human beings.

Our society can be classified into three, the UPPER class, MIDDLE class and the LOWER class.  People who are born with silver spoons in their mouths, those who do not worry of tomorrow because they have all the money they would ever need. Filthy rich individuals who maintain a high status in the society and most of them are in the business sector, some in politics, media or just plain rich folks belong to the upper class. There are countless who dream of having their lives but on the other hand much of them prefer of having a trouble-free and an uncomplicated way of living. They remain rich or become even richer because of their principles or simply because of their money making skills. But there are also those who become rich through their wicked activities. Then there’s the middle class, the mediocre, the common people. They work for a living and have enough to spend on what they need.  Sometimes they may find their way up or even down but there are those who are just fine being at this level.  But there are also people below, those who belong in the lower class who are deprived of a lot of things. Food, shelter, clothing are just among the basics which are very hard for them to acquire. They define poverty.  You see them on the streets, in the slums and almost everywhere because there’s just too many of them.

But what does this tell us? Getting rich and wanting to get richer with awful means, taking advantage of people with the use of money and power, exploiting natural and human resources for selfish motives, being in debt just to have that glamorous lifestyle or if not struggling just have that social spot.  Is securing a place in the society or trying to fit in the righteous thing to do rather than living with full simplicity and contentment? Is it a crime to be poor and lack social class? Is it a mortal sin if one cannot drink an overpriced coffee, or eat in a fancy restaurant, buy himself a top of the line mobile phone, wear designer clothes, or walk on expensive shoes? 

We maybe of different statuses in life, with different priorities, tastes, responsibilities, goals, opinions and beliefs but let us not forget in the end we won’t be judged through what we have become or who we were. It will be based on how well we have lived our lives. We tend to forget our purpose in life because we focus on competition and definition and can’t decide on who or what we should be.  The purpose of life is to live it. Be determined to live for something not just for yourself and your own well-being. Remember to respect people, be responsible of your actions, know right from wrong, and do a reality check that life is not always on your favor. Today you are rich but tomorrow you may be not. There are so many things in this world that we can’t control. But it is important to remember the things that we can. What we do, what we say and what we think.

venerdì 6 aprile 2012

Sacrifice

My first blog entry published last March 11, 2012 on Definitely Filipino-The Blog for Online Filipinos



Around 11 million is the estimated count of Filipinos worldwide. More than 3000 of our kababayans leave the country every day to seek a better lifestyle for their families. The past few years have been very tough. With our country’s economy, unstable government and growing population who would not think of migrating? The Ninoy Aquino International Airport has always been witness to heartbreaking goodbyes, stories of hope and optimism and of tragedies and misfortunes.  A father leaving his wife and kids and unsure of when he’s coming back. A single mother, full of dreams seeing a bleak future for her child choose to work far away. Filipinos, who among many others became unfortunate with their experiences in foreign land. Some lost their jobs, get harassed and even killed. Regardless of the risk they still opt to leave in pursuit of a greener pasture. With these, many questions are raised. Is leaving the country the only way to escape from the nation’s crisis? Do our children have to grow up far away from their parents? Will the government take actions on its current dilemmas or will the Filipinos carry the burden of its nation’s chaos?
Filipinos migrate for different reasons.  Working abroad is not all about the money. It’s all about dreams to fulfill and a life to improve.  It is never wrong to seek for betterment. But we must all be conscious of what is at stake.  What are the things that really matter to us?
Many of us dream to have a better life. A beautiful house, a car and money in the bank are some of the things we aspire. But are these still within reach or for us to have them realized that means a life far away from our loved ones?  Family comes first for us Filipinos and we do a lot of sacrifices for their sake. How many among us have missed their son or daughter’s birthday? Or was not able to attend their kid’s graduation? Or is the only person missing during reunions? Were you there to attend the funeral of your relatives who passed away? At the end of the day you might want to ask yourself are these sacrifices all worth it? We are all given with choices on how to live our lives.  But we must always know how good do we have to be and how much is enough.
Each one of us struggle to attain our dreams and with the decision of leaving the country, did we really make a good choice or are we losing the most important thing worth all the money in the world which is FAMILY. We earn money but we lose TIME with family and LOVE from family. We have seen the benefits of working overseas but we never really thought of what we have given up.